When to know it's just warm or...too hot to get involved..? Does it depend on our perception? Is it better to see the sign first than to get surprised by the hotness? And why do we even need signs at the first place, when we are supposed to know that the coffee, we usually take on the way, is always hot. Do we need warnings every time we get into something? Should there be sign "Caution contents hot" to all relationships we start, although, we still know they won't always be so "cool" and we might burn, or it's just human nature to make the same mistakes again..and..again..? Perceptiveness - getting things straight or the opposite - makes it all complicated?
When we can see the hotness from outside, then what is left for inside...coldness? And does everything that looks cold from outside starts melting when it gets warmer? Couldn't help but wonder, isn't that just part of relationships, not to know what is inside that container. We empty out the content and then just flip it in garbage. At the end...who has been emptied - that other, we or just the big cup that is containing everything. Just a carton mug no one cares - trashed and then recycled, later useful again. But how many times it can be recovered?
When we burn by a hot drink it is unpleasant for a while but we keep on drinking until it IS empty, although, the taste is not the same anymore. We should be careful and take it with little sips. Relationships, like the mug of coffee- the sign is there but do we ever read that tiny tainy note. However we don't have reason to blame anybody but ourselves for taking that big gulp of that HOT content. HOT- a potential hazard. What looks like soft and sweet could scald your trusting tongue.
How can it be that a hot person we see at first is considered to be something fabulous. But when we take all our guts to go closer we are freezed out by his coldness? Hey, where all that Hot went? Should there be sign "Caution contents COLD"? Hottie gets into Coldie. We can burn by a frost too.
But at the end It's not all about hot or cold, when it is too hot we can add the cold, when it is too cold we add the hot, we should learn how to get the warm that is specific for each of us. What is too hot for one is not for other, so that's why the world is full of options. Everyone needs its own dose for the perfect coffee.
Cognition: Hot heads and cold hearts never solved anything.
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